The “childless cat lady” stereotype dates back centuries, from witch trials to Victorian judgments against independent women. Today, this trope has resurfaced with JD Vance’s comments on “childless cat ladies” among Democratic leaders, implying they lack a “stake” in society’s future. However, this label now fuels a movement—women, with or without children, are reclaiming the trope as a symbol of empowerment and self-determination. Figures like Chelsea Handler, Taylor Swift, and Kamala Harris challenge outdated narratives, rallying voices across generations for November's vote.
It’s not just about pets and personalities—it’s about autonomy and choice. As a former “anxious-disembodied-good-girl” who found her worth in purity, having a family, and looking perfect, I am proudly going out trick-or-treating with my kids tonight dressed as TAYLOR SWIFT as Time Magazine’s Person of The Year, a.k.a. the ultimate childless cat lady. Vance’s criticism of childless women as "cat ladies" dismisses their value and agency so thank’s J.D for this chance to be playful yet firm on my stance on woman’s power to define herself.
There was a moment where I go in my head thinking who am I as a 42 year old mother of 3 to dress up this way for Halloween; then I realized I don’t believe in limiting myself or dimming my light to make other’s comfortable anymore. So with my jr. higher, 3 grader and 1st grader’s emphatic permission I going to rock it!
Happy Halloween & please be safe!
With Love,
Chrissy
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